Sunday, May 30, 2010

the Pre_Game.

Pre-game
Do you ever wonder why lately you may not be getting what you want in the bedroom gentleman? Do you think about how things just aren’t the way they use to be? Or about how she is not that enthusiastic about having the old sexo anymore? You feel like you woman changed, and she not the freak she use to be? Well You’d be surprise to know that it’s not your physical being , It’s also not about her disliking sex now. Don’t worry, she still loves you.
The truth is you have a lot of control over what happens in the bedroom. Good news is, “You can get what you want”. Your sex life can be the way it was when you two first started. You can still have that fire burning heat making love all night thing happening for you. The way you get it isn’t by simply telling her what you do or don’t want. Playing the blame game on why your sex life is now boring or that is feels like it is treated like a chore also isn’t the answer. The way you get your women when you want her is by doing the same things you did or use to do, or doing what you did when the relationship was fresh… What you do outside of the bedroom has a lot of control over what happened inside your bedroom. Wine and dine you women one in a while. Have date night, Hold her hands. When you are around a lot of people still look at her as if she was the only women in the room. Greet her with deep kisses, not just a peck. Complement her , call her beautiful. PAY ATTENTION! If she changes her hair (say something). It’s better to tell that her you’re not a fan of the new hairdo then to say nothing at all. Saying nothing indicated that you don’t care! Your women will seek your attention in ways they may not notice themselves at times. A sign that your women is trying to get your attention is when she is always doing something new . No matter what it is... whether with her hair, her wardrobe, the house, Wearing something new to bed, or changing their perfume. So pay attention As much as you can. ( I know that may feel like a chore) ;-)
The reason I stress the things that happens outside you bedroom so much is because they are the same things that can help or kill your sex life. A woman will do anything for a man who makes her feel like a Queen. Make her feel like you only have eyes for her every now and then. Remind her of how amazing you think she is. And thrust me she will say yes to sex even when she is not exactly in the mood. When you treat your woman right and keep the romance alive, you now can starts negotiating the matters of your sexual needs without hesitation. When is come to getting down she may even surprise you by giving you more then you imagined. Your sex life and your relationship can feel brand new every once in a while; But it’s all up to you. You have to make it happen for yourself in the bedroom. I recommend that you and your partner set up a date night at least once a month. Try doing more out of the house dates. And when you do go out do something you both like and make sure you both will have lots of fun together. That is the simple key to keeping the fire burning in your relationship. Now be merry and go love on your lady.
GOOD LUCK!

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