you asked for it so here it is.
When we talk about cunnilingus most men think that just licking the clitoris is all it takes to get a women to climax. WRONG!! that may work but its not enough to bring her to the kind of orgasm she desires. she may get off but orgasm... I don't know. Almost anyone can lick the clit and get the job done. but if you want to be remembered... listen up
It has to be magic or chemistry between the 2 of you that makes this to work. listen to her, pay attention to her body language, and her mood. take you time, don't just dive in like a hungry dog... when you make your way down there, be passionate, open her legs, kiss them, her inner thigh,kiss the lips of her vagina, and be gentle. That will already have her blood flowing. She may be the type that like to direct, tell you do go there, and to that. Listen to her, but do not rush to do it trying get her to reach her peak. Take it slow,because the longer you keep her aroused the better. Tease her, make her long for it, that way when you finally give her what she wants it will be one explosion following another. Every women is different so the rule don't apply for everyone, but listen to the woman's body and respond. that will never fail you.
Sucking on a clitoris. Now be very careful the first time you try sucking on a woman's clit. Some women are very sensitive and will shriek in pain.so a soft suck would be better. some women take longer to reach climax so feel free to add a finger or two in her to reach their G spot in order to help stimulate her more. the way you can find that spot is if you hook your finger upward inside of her. its located up there, you may have to do some maneuvering depending on the women. she also may not want your finger in her during oral, so if you do that and the respond isn't good get your fingers out of there. It also is not enough to keep licking her clitoris. Sucking,(not hard core sucking) preferably sucking as if you are making out with her vagina. Look at her if you can(it may be hard because of the position your in). reach up and massage her breast, ask her if she likes it, use your teeth if she is into that kinda thing, but i don't advise it for immatures.
Use clever and fun ways and places to do it. Men joke about having there women as a meal all the time. its may help if one time you actually pick her up, lay her on the table pull a chair up and enjoy the feast. (using all sanitary procedure of course). know your women so you can give her what she wants, and using these tips can make giving her head memorable every time. you'll be surprise the things you women would be willing to do for you after that ;-)
Tuesday, March 30, 2010
Wednesday, March 17, 2010
To do or not to do the Cunnilingus
ORAL SEX.
People love oral sex and boast about it all the time. However there are a few people who are not as expressive as others when it comes to oral sex.For certain men when it come to performing oral sex on women its a no go.(Sadly)lots of relationships end because of sex complications... oral sex happens to be on the list.women are often pretentious when it come to giving men oral sex. Why!I'm not sure. we sometimes act as if the mouth is precious and no ones genital belong in it.
GIVE ME A BREAK!.
Oral sex could be the best thing in your sex life.Everyone enjoys oral sex. some may just be scared of how good it feels.(you know... kinda like how some man feel about their nipples and anus lol). There are always so many questions and worries about how people feel about oral sex. Almost everyone has a preference or complication, but underneath it all. Its pretty simple.
Ladies Ladies Ladies
Stop being afraid of performing or receiving oral sex. Its normal and its great. its hard enough most of the time getting an orgasms through penetration. Oral sex can work wonders for your sex life!The only way you should be afraid is if you have some kind of vaginal malfunctions, and if that's the case don't let anyone know your business lol.I have to say that I hear about the difficulties of performing oral sex more from women. Either you think its nasty or you not sure your good at it. Ladies... It is not nasty. It could be nasty if your partner is a nasty, unhealthy, unclean pig. other then that, it is SKIN.(stored in someones pant but it is skin!) lol. Imagine as if you are sucking on a skin covered lengthy lollipop. sounds funny I know, but its true. As far as skills goes... Come on ladies, if you type oral sex on any search engine you will find that 90 percent of the result revolve around male satisfaction. Men LOVES oral sex, and care about it more then intercourse sometimes. you can read books and get tips to help you please your partner, but the only way to be good at it is too practice. you may not want to be blowing your man everyday, he may not want you practicing and hurting his penis either. go to an adult toy store and purchase a "candy penis".it is shaped and designed like a real penis there are different sizes. its a real lollipop so you will enjoy the taste. Although man are not that complicated, every man has that thing that drives them crazy. Go practice and find out what it is. Better yet ask them to make it easier on you and your partner. If you are not having fun practicing something is wrong, and seek other alternatives.
Gentleman...
You men are great with this sex thing, but Its funny the way some of you feel about oral sex... Some of you take it more seriously them you take a relationship. I have even encounter men who claims to have rules to when or whom they will eat. YET! they are the same man who want every women they come in contact with sexually to blow their socks off. I guess that's just part of the sexually selfish nature of men... Now listen...I'm not in anyway implying that you should go put your mouth on just about anybody, but try every now and then to reciprocate the gesture. Women love oral sex just like you if not more them you do. So if your using a discriminatory process when it come to deciding who you will or will not please orally, don't expect it from every women you go to bed with. Keep it intercourse exclusive. It feels as if some of you sees oral as intimacy that is only to be shared with your future wife. (That is great!). however don't feel that way and also find it okay for any prostitute like females and blow you off. I'm not attacking you fellas, but the double standard should go to hell. Moving on i'm glad to say that this problems commonly exist in young minded or inexperienced enough man. Some man LOVES to give and receive oral favor.thrust me WE KNOW when a man love pussy. (excuse the language)you can tell by the way they eat it, go about eating it, or talk about it. Their never shy about about it, and they refer to it as one of their favorite meal at times lol.
To move on if you love oral sex, need more oral sex, or whatever your case may be. Do what you think you need to do to be happy. If partaking in the cunnilingus rituals isn't your thing, then by all mean don't do it. BUT! if you want it, love it, need more of it, do what you need to do to find out why your not yet satisfied with your oral sex life. Compromise with your partner. If He or she likes your genital area shaved, waxed, trimmed, bald,try it you might like it too. Lets not forget that its about getting what you want. just remember at least 3 orgasm a week is required to keep your libido up. You need to maintain a healthy sex life. However you keep that up is your business, but i can surly tell you oral sex will help.
P.S. if you want my next blog to be about how to perform good oral sex. let me know and i will deliver. (on both men and women).
People love oral sex and boast about it all the time. However there are a few people who are not as expressive as others when it comes to oral sex.For certain men when it come to performing oral sex on women its a no go.(Sadly)lots of relationships end because of sex complications... oral sex happens to be on the list.women are often pretentious when it come to giving men oral sex. Why!I'm not sure. we sometimes act as if the mouth is precious and no ones genital belong in it.
GIVE ME A BREAK!.
Oral sex could be the best thing in your sex life.Everyone enjoys oral sex. some may just be scared of how good it feels.(you know... kinda like how some man feel about their nipples and anus lol). There are always so many questions and worries about how people feel about oral sex. Almost everyone has a preference or complication, but underneath it all. Its pretty simple.
Ladies Ladies Ladies
Stop being afraid of performing or receiving oral sex. Its normal and its great. its hard enough most of the time getting an orgasms through penetration. Oral sex can work wonders for your sex life!The only way you should be afraid is if you have some kind of vaginal malfunctions, and if that's the case don't let anyone know your business lol.I have to say that I hear about the difficulties of performing oral sex more from women. Either you think its nasty or you not sure your good at it. Ladies... It is not nasty. It could be nasty if your partner is a nasty, unhealthy, unclean pig. other then that, it is SKIN.(stored in someones pant but it is skin!) lol. Imagine as if you are sucking on a skin covered lengthy lollipop. sounds funny I know, but its true. As far as skills goes... Come on ladies, if you type oral sex on any search engine you will find that 90 percent of the result revolve around male satisfaction. Men LOVES oral sex, and care about it more then intercourse sometimes. you can read books and get tips to help you please your partner, but the only way to be good at it is too practice. you may not want to be blowing your man everyday, he may not want you practicing and hurting his penis either. go to an adult toy store and purchase a "candy penis".it is shaped and designed like a real penis there are different sizes. its a real lollipop so you will enjoy the taste. Although man are not that complicated, every man has that thing that drives them crazy. Go practice and find out what it is. Better yet ask them to make it easier on you and your partner. If you are not having fun practicing something is wrong, and seek other alternatives.
Gentleman...
You men are great with this sex thing, but Its funny the way some of you feel about oral sex... Some of you take it more seriously them you take a relationship. I have even encounter men who claims to have rules to when or whom they will eat. YET! they are the same man who want every women they come in contact with sexually to blow their socks off. I guess that's just part of the sexually selfish nature of men... Now listen...I'm not in anyway implying that you should go put your mouth on just about anybody, but try every now and then to reciprocate the gesture. Women love oral sex just like you if not more them you do. So if your using a discriminatory process when it come to deciding who you will or will not please orally, don't expect it from every women you go to bed with. Keep it intercourse exclusive. It feels as if some of you sees oral as intimacy that is only to be shared with your future wife. (That is great!). however don't feel that way and also find it okay for any prostitute like females and blow you off. I'm not attacking you fellas, but the double standard should go to hell. Moving on i'm glad to say that this problems commonly exist in young minded or inexperienced enough man. Some man LOVES to give and receive oral favor.thrust me WE KNOW when a man love pussy. (excuse the language)you can tell by the way they eat it, go about eating it, or talk about it. Their never shy about about it, and they refer to it as one of their favorite meal at times lol.
To move on if you love oral sex, need more oral sex, or whatever your case may be. Do what you think you need to do to be happy. If partaking in the cunnilingus rituals isn't your thing, then by all mean don't do it. BUT! if you want it, love it, need more of it, do what you need to do to find out why your not yet satisfied with your oral sex life. Compromise with your partner. If He or she likes your genital area shaved, waxed, trimmed, bald,try it you might like it too. Lets not forget that its about getting what you want. just remember at least 3 orgasm a week is required to keep your libido up. You need to maintain a healthy sex life. However you keep that up is your business, but i can surly tell you oral sex will help.
P.S. if you want my next blog to be about how to perform good oral sex. let me know and i will deliver. (on both men and women).
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