Wednesday, February 24, 2010

TRUE OR FALSE?

Questions men often ask is " How do i know my women is faking it?" Another is " Why is she faking it?"
WHY?
Okay first I would like to address that women don't really enjoy faking it. I'm sure majority of the women in the world would love to not have to fake it.We love climaxing just like you. We would love to have a man give us exploding orgasms. Or a women (what ever you prefer). Unfortunately it doesn't always work like that. There are a few reasons why a women would fake it.. The sex may not be the best and, it doesn't mean your not good. Its just not working for her at the moment. However if you have reason to believe that your lady is an habitual faker.. You might wanna start questioning why she is sticking around??? just saying... Another reason could be that it hurt. After having sex a lot the vagina gets swollen and it may occasionally hurt. o she figures if she fakes it you them can proceed to reaching your climax and it will all be over.
NOW HOW CAN YOU TELL?
Some women are just bad at it and gentle man I hate to point out that you are all even more stupid not to notice. If she is hysterically screaming and moving a lot she "MAY" be faking. That does not mean screamers are fakers. Some women are loud and that is how they express themselves. They have these loud outburst of pleasure, however an orgasms takes concentration energy to achieve. Therefore when having sex with a women.. Listen to her breathing. Its all in there. She should be taking a lot of noticeable breaths almost like short deep breaths, she may moan and quite possibly yell. If you are experienced enough, you should be able to tell if a women is faking or enjoying themselves by lightening to her breathing. Specially during oral sex. ( I'll keep that for another section.) Another way to tell is if she has reach climax is the contraction inside. Her vagina will pulsate. her walls may pulsate and, you can feel it while inside of her. Then there is the body language. If she is having a good orgasm or one at all she is going to want to hold on to something. It may be you, the sheets or something around involved in your sexcapade lol. She may even push you off. In the mist of it she may develop some strength like a super women and convolve into something you can't quite figure out. When it happens will take a strong may to hold her down. PS..... tTat means you did a GREAT job.
Despite all I just said ... Some women are just too damn good at faking it you may never be able to tell when she is faking during sex.. However if after what seemed like great sex she immediately is up and moving doing laundry and all kinds of ish.. I can almost guarantee you that she faked it. Cause sex + reaching the big "O" takes energy.
Now ladies don't go thinking that you're too good and that your man, partner, or whomever don't know when you fake it. Some man know and can tell.. specially if they have been with you for a while. sometimes they let you think they believe your Oscar wining performance because they don't care, and why should they. they got what they wanted.

Wednesday, February 10, 2010

sex is you

there are and have always been perception about women and there sexual desires. there are also expectation from women as far as what they are and should be, even how they should feel. there are some as well for men, but for right now I'm going to focus on the ladies because there are more complications in our corner.
sex and relationship!
my friends and I always seem to end up in great debates and arguments about these standards and differences. witch turns in to "battle of the sexes" mayhem too often. the questions often are
... can women really hold a platonic relationship with a men? can we truly have sex with no strings attached? women always end up losers in the love game because of our emotions? are we too emotional and if so why are we? these questions believe it or not we fight about all the time.
Before we move on I will say that I will try to refrain from generalizing things because everyone is not the same. (specially women). although we can relate in a lot of ways we are all very different. hell... we might be the most misunderstood living being on this earth. we somethings struggles to figure our selves out .
women are looked at differently if they are open about sex. that is why most women fear opening up about their sex lives or sexual desires. some women are convince that if they open up they will start falling into these categories that society have created. so i will dedicated the blogs to come to "SEX". I am a women and i am not ashamed of loving sex and the world knowing about it because it is natural and normal. you just have to be smart about it and know what you value the most.
p.s fell free to ask me questions !