Wednesday, February 24, 2010

TRUE OR FALSE?

Questions men often ask is " How do i know my women is faking it?" Another is " Why is she faking it?"
WHY?
Okay first I would like to address that women don't really enjoy faking it. I'm sure majority of the women in the world would love to not have to fake it.We love climaxing just like you. We would love to have a man give us exploding orgasms. Or a women (what ever you prefer). Unfortunately it doesn't always work like that. There are a few reasons why a women would fake it.. The sex may not be the best and, it doesn't mean your not good. Its just not working for her at the moment. However if you have reason to believe that your lady is an habitual faker.. You might wanna start questioning why she is sticking around??? just saying... Another reason could be that it hurt. After having sex a lot the vagina gets swollen and it may occasionally hurt. o she figures if she fakes it you them can proceed to reaching your climax and it will all be over.
NOW HOW CAN YOU TELL?
Some women are just bad at it and gentle man I hate to point out that you are all even more stupid not to notice. If she is hysterically screaming and moving a lot she "MAY" be faking. That does not mean screamers are fakers. Some women are loud and that is how they express themselves. They have these loud outburst of pleasure, however an orgasms takes concentration energy to achieve. Therefore when having sex with a women.. Listen to her breathing. Its all in there. She should be taking a lot of noticeable breaths almost like short deep breaths, she may moan and quite possibly yell. If you are experienced enough, you should be able to tell if a women is faking or enjoying themselves by lightening to her breathing. Specially during oral sex. ( I'll keep that for another section.) Another way to tell is if she has reach climax is the contraction inside. Her vagina will pulsate. her walls may pulsate and, you can feel it while inside of her. Then there is the body language. If she is having a good orgasm or one at all she is going to want to hold on to something. It may be you, the sheets or something around involved in your sexcapade lol. She may even push you off. In the mist of it she may develop some strength like a super women and convolve into something you can't quite figure out. When it happens will take a strong may to hold her down. PS..... tTat means you did a GREAT job.
Despite all I just said ... Some women are just too damn good at faking it you may never be able to tell when she is faking during sex.. However if after what seemed like great sex she immediately is up and moving doing laundry and all kinds of ish.. I can almost guarantee you that she faked it. Cause sex + reaching the big "O" takes energy.
Now ladies don't go thinking that you're too good and that your man, partner, or whomever don't know when you fake it. Some man know and can tell.. specially if they have been with you for a while. sometimes they let you think they believe your Oscar wining performance because they don't care, and why should they. they got what they wanted.

4 comments:

  1. Hmm, very insightful Geishawords... and I must say that I agree with everything u said about how u know ur woman is faking it or not. Personally,I'd rather a woman tell me that I'm not pleasing her instead of faking it; I honestly won't get offended by it. As a matter of fact, I like asking questions as to what she likes and what can make her reach her climax. U'll be surprise to see what pleases different women.

    What some people don't understand as well is that it takes two for "great sex". As a man, I might be going at it with everything I've got but if the woman doesn't do her part, she sure will get disappointed.

    Anyways, very well said. I enjoyed the reading...

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  2. It takes too much to fake it...
    It's simplier to tell your partner how you want/like it versus putting on a show.
    As a woman, I think faking it is rather disrespectful. Why waste that energy?

    Nice post by the way!

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  3. that is right Super G it does take a lot of energy but sometimes women may want to fake it and get it over with specially when there doing it just because there man wanted it.. witch is sad but I've heard it before.
    Jean Hevert.. it is man like you who make the world go round. wanting to know what pleases your women is a must! yes women are such different its almost like having a study session every time you come in contact with a different women. what may have worked for the last may not work for the next.

    thanks for your inputs.

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  4. I enjoyed the reading and found it surprisingly similar to something we've discussed...Now I totally agree with Jean Hevert...he took the words right out of me. I don't mind asking questions to find out what u like and u don't like cause if I can make u happy then I sure as hell will be happy and enjoy it too(hopefully)lol. That way I eliminate the use of deception oh and ladies we know when u fake it...it's either we don't care and want to get ours or just feel bad so we don't mention it...I understand that it gets sore down there but the best way to go is tell us...the lies need to stop lol...keep it up geishawords

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